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How to Enjoy Being Single

How to Enjoy Being SingleWhether you are single by choice or because you broke up, it is useful to know how to enjoy being single. In this article we are going to discuss some of the ways in which you can enjoy being single.

After being bombarded by countless magazine ads, romantic movies and novels about love, romance and finding that special someone to share the rest of your life with, it becomes difficult to enjoy being single. Friends and relatives look at you with pity and mildly concealed curiosity when you announce that you are single and enjoying your single hood. With our culture being obsessed with settling down and getting "happily ever after" with a soul mate, being single is becoming harder and harder. And somehow, being single is becoming a very dirty word indeed with people trying to find out if you have had a traumatic experience, a bad relationship or worse you are emotionally unavailable. And lets face it, it is becoming harder to enjoy being single in a couple happy world. And what about those Valentine's days that arrive every year and you really feel sorry for yourselves? That's why you have to know how to enjoy being single if you want to grow as a person and lead a happy life.

How to Enjoy Being Single Again

If you are recently out of a relationship, then you might find it difficult to be a single again. After you are done mourning for the end of the relationship and have given yourself enough time to heal, it is best to enjoy your new single status. One of the best ways to enjoy being single is to reconnect with all your friends that you had sidelined and ignored when you were in a relationship. And because they are your friends and love you very much, they will forgive your past behavior and help you to enjoy life again, go out with them to clubs and discos and have a wild time. Focus on what makes you happy and try to do some things that you have never done earlier. Go scuba diving, learn the salsa dance, enroll yourself for a session of kickboxing, sing in a karaoke, learn to prepare an exotic dish. All these things that you never had enough time because you were too busy with your ex, you can do them now. Being single is not such a bad thing, and you will soon realize what are the advantages of being single.

If being single again sounds like a scary proposition to you, then let me tell you that it's all in your mind. You perceive being single as something that happens to a loser and think that equates to you being unlovable. But that is the farthest from the truth. To learn how to enjoy being single, you have to first change your mindset and attitude. Being single is not a taboo and contrary to what you believe, it is not because nobody loves you. Being single teaches you to be self reliant and independent and most importantly it teaches you how to enjoy your own company. Because let's face it, if you don't love yourself and can't enjoy your own company, how do you expect another person to do that? To be able to find true love and happiness and make another person's life meaningful and complete, you need to love and respect yourself first. So approach being single with this positive point of view and learn how to be happy being single.

Do not fall in the trap of feeling sorry for yourself. Just enjoy your own company for a while and believe that there is someone out there for you who will love and accept you for being you. Until that time comes and you find that perfect someone, try to see the benefits of being single. Watch back to back episodes of Grey's Anatomy, rent out all the movies you love and get out and make some new friends. Read all the bestseller novels that you never had time to read when you were too busy nurturing a relationship and best of all travel to places you had always wanted to, but couldn't. There are many vacation ideas for singles which are simply fabulous. This is the time to focus and pamper yourself. Take a mini vacation, go to a spa with your friends or learn to play a new musical instrument. The list of things that you can do is endless. In the end, you have to remember that being single is not a curse, it is actually a blessing in disguise. It is an opportunity for you to explore more avenues and become a better person.

This was all about how to enjoy being single. The best piece of advice that I can give is to not fall in the trap of just dating anybody, just because you feel lonely. Try to enjoy and appreciate all the benefits of a single life.

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